Ever missed an opportunity that took a toll on you?

Seen yourself miss privileges that hurt? Was someone else given a preferential treatment at your expense?

Did you think or see yourself more deserving of an opportunity, reward but it was channeled somewhere else?

How about the exam you did not pass? 🤔

Well, will it be okay and good to say we have all missed an opportunity or door we thought should have been opened to us, but someone else

And how was the feeling like when those unfortunate situations happened?

People have varied ways of responding to negative situations and events🤔

Sometimes, that opportunity we missed could be God’s own way of protecting and redirecting us. It might sound like a cliche.

However, God always has a Better plan.

I learned that the Hard way, and I can promise you that God always has something better for you.

Our minds and hearts are always fixated on a specific purpose and plan. This gets us completely shattered once these events unfold.

The remedy to being broken in the interim is to keep a more open mind and remember what God has for you, No man can have it.

It may not take off when you expect it, but it will eventually happen.

If for any reason you have a conviction that, what is yours has been taken, Smile…. He will give back a better option.

He has a way of doing it in the most beautiful, unexplainable and amazing manner.

It may not be easy. It may hurt. Nonetheless,the hurt is worth the glory ahead.

When you want to grieve, remember you are better off with what you missed and door that was shut.

Some doors would have harmed you if received.

Some days, you will be okay. Other days, you will not. It is okay not to be okay sometimes. Keep Going. 🌟

His word talks about Newness and open doors. Just believe.👏

What you missed was meant to protect you.🤗

Embrace the new while waiting on the best.💜

Another there is opened waiting for your readiness to fit in. 🍷

Never Give Up!!

Sending you love and light.❤️

***adjwoa adubia amponsah***

I am not a bearer of opinion on the school of thought which reiterates, believes and talk constantly about how bad and wicked people are.

I must confess however, I am always unable to get over the shock from some wickedness I witness in every stage of my life. Mentally, I always hope some people will get better, change from wicked ways and be good people.

Regardless, people are really Nice. People are Sweet. People are Amazing!🏫

While I believe what the good book says about the fact that: ‘the heart of man is desperately wicked and have experiences that speak to that, I also cherish the peculiarities of others hence, my decision on concluding and choosing the niceness of others against how mean they can be.

Constantly seeing how bad, evil and mean others are may put you on a negative trajectory. You might hardly keep an open and happy mind towards others. It may affect how you see the world and treat others, especially yourself.

I prefer to be free minded. I prefer to be Happy not thinking about the wickedness of others even after it hit me by letting go and keep lessons. I prefer to bless others’ lives with love and keep a heart of love than turn hostile as a result of heart of man.

How lucky or unlucky have you been with people? I have uncountable moments of having beautiful encounters with some special people. Right from childhood.

From school and work. Nonetheless,I have had really hard & horrifying moments with some other people in these stages of life.

At some point, I was almost thinking I am not loved by many, but I have been shown so much love by classmates right from basic school to tertiary, colleagues, report’s and superiors that ismind-bogglingg.

Must I dwell on the Negatives? No! I learnt to focus on Positives. I got happier and the Positives multiplied.

God has a way of bringing us good people. In schools, as study partners and friends. In other societies, relatable and reasonable friends and in institutions, lovely colleagues who may have our backs.

During my Undergrad days, missing Accounting lectures and not being able to understand, I was given an angel of a colleague who assisted we with Accounting while I also help him with Psychology. He was happy to help me get it. A kind gesture I cannot forget. Then for my second degree, another angel who cared about not a specific subject I might have had a challenge, he generally wanted to always make sure I am good.

I also had a lady lecturer friend who doubled as a big sister during my Undergrad days. How God gives us Nice people to be there for us can be humbling.

And while working, he gives me another angel or angels who I can confidently go to. People who have my interest at heart and will only want to see me happy, advise me and encourage me should need be.

And in friendships, I have a good friend who does not only laugh with me, but cries with me. I remember when I had to cry over issues with my first boyfriend while in the University. I saw how sad she looked and a tear in her eyes. Priceless moments of friendship and how not only Nice people can be but Kind & Human. 😇 💜

I have had amazing people show me kindness and love. I am certain you have had same. Even strangers!Not only friends and acquaintances.And then I have had bad experiences as well.

Though the shock of dining with demons sometimes took over almost erasing lovely moments, I reiterate that: “People are Nice.” Do you agree?

No matter how hostile an environment may be or People are for you, God always gives you that one person and right people who you can rely on in that season.

Enjoy Love, People, Life, Moments & Situations.

Never Ever Give Up, On People, Life & Love!!🥰

Hugs, love and light. 🤗❤️💜

***adjwoa adubia amponsah*** 08.10.21

A lot of us have stories untold, deepest pains, silent struggles we have endured & situations that have been devastating,daring and difficult we never saw to have come to an end until we endured it.

Like tunnels, the hallows and billows outweighed the ride and peace.

If you haven’t been in a situation that left you helpless to the point of having no help nor a sense of security whether emotionally, financially and physically, you may not appreciate this.

Devil depicts objects and persons in our lives meant to harm us or turn situations against us either than our favour. They kill us basically. Our dreams, our relationship and our soundness.

Talking about the devil, 😈 who could the devil be? I have had & seen one in my life. Perhaps they might be many.

However, people are not that bad. People are nice. Others are kind. And some are sweet. But the demons in our lives have smiled with us and taken us to rooms only to destroy us. Yet, we dine, hangout with them and tell them all the secrets.

A story a good friend told me about one of her best friends that betrayed her to which she could not recover from. And in all honesty, I do not see why people closest to us should talk bad about us…I am that traditional. 😶 Why relate with me by creating a likeable impression when you dislike me in every sense of the way? “Please don’t talk me into the human nature and emotional intelligence stuff”. I understand that and appreciate Peculiarities.

However, you cannot be a friend if you are unreliable. When you speak ill behind my back and when you drain me…That is what I have decided to live by and it works. Peace of mind over doubt of love and acceptance.

2019, God showed me he was with me while he pointed out some people to me. What a relief that, I now live loving others yet knowing how to trust.

I had a situation where the person I trusted and spoke to was same stabbing and peddling untruth about me. The lies, the negative rumors and impressions were initiated by him in conversations. Always thinking for me and ahead of me negatively. As grave as what the fellow did was, I ended up gaining. I Matured and Grew. Then I Won.

It is my prayer that, God grants us discernment so we can know who is for and with us. To avoid situations, rooms and conversations meant to harm us.

What I am confident about is, the negative situations or plots end up to our advantage. So while at life, enjoy people, relationships,favours and love. The right situations and people will win.

When next you dine with a devil, know that you are Stronger and better than ‘it/them’ reason they disguise themselves. They are not fit to be on your table hence ‘faking’ it to stay with you to dine on one table.

Bury the hurt, pain and enjoy every moment. Out of them comes Growth.

Thank you for the read,like and comment.!!

Remember to Never Give Up!

08.10.21

❤️adubia