A lot of us have stories untold, deepest pains, silent struggles we have endured & situations that have been devastating,daring and difficult we never saw to have come to an end until we endured it.
Like tunnels, the hallows and billows outweighed the ride and peace.
If you haven’t been in a situation that left you helpless to the point of having no help nor a sense of security whether emotionally, financially and physically, you may not appreciate this.
Devil depicts objects and persons in our lives meant to harm us or turn situations against us either than our favour. They kill us basically. Our dreams, our relationship and our soundness.
Talking about the devil, 😈 who could the devil be? I have had & seen one in my life. Perhaps they might be many.
However, people are not that bad. People are nice. Others are kind. And some are sweet. But the demons in our lives have smiled with us and taken us to rooms only to destroy us. Yet, we dine, hangout with them and tell them all the secrets.
A story a good friend told me about one of her best friends that betrayed her to which she could not recover from. And in all honesty, I do not see why people closest to us should talk bad about us…I am that traditional. 😶 Why relate with me by creating a likeable impression when you dislike me in every sense of the way? “Please don’t talk me into the human nature and emotional intelligence stuff”. I understand that and appreciate Peculiarities.
However, you cannot be a friend if you are unreliable. When you speak ill behind my back and when you drain me…That is what I have decided to live by and it works. Peace of mind over doubt of love and acceptance.
2019, God showed me he was with me while he pointed out some people to me. What a relief that, I now live loving others yet knowing how to trust.
I had a situation where the person I trusted and spoke to was same stabbing and peddling untruth about me. The lies, the negative rumors and impressions were initiated by him in conversations. Always thinking for me and ahead of me negatively. As grave as what the fellow did was, I ended up gaining. I Matured and Grew. Then I Won.
It is my prayer that, God grants us discernment so we can know who is for and with us. To avoid situations, rooms and conversations meant to harm us.
What I am confident about is, the negative situations or plots end up to our advantage. So while at life, enjoy people, relationships,favours and love. The right situations and people will win.
When next you dine with a devil, know that you are Stronger and better than ‘it/them’ reason they disguise themselves. They are not fit to be on your table hence ‘faking’ it to stay with you to dine on one table.
Bury the hurt, pain and enjoy every moment. Out of them comes Growth.
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08.10.21
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